One of the biggest decisions couples face when planning their wedding timeline is whether to have a First Look or stick with the Traditional Aisle Reveal. Both options create beautiful, emotional moments, but they offer very different experiences. So how do you decide? Let’s break down the pros and cons of each.

What Is a First Look?

A First Look is a private moment before the ceremony where the couple sees each other for the first time. It’s an intimate opportunity to connect, share emotions, and take portraits before the day officially begins.

Pros of a First Look

• More Time for Photos
  A First Look allows you to take couple portraits, wedding party shots, and even some family photos before the ceremony, freeing up time later in the day and allowing you to enjoy cocktail hour with your guests.

• Eases Nerves
  Seeing each other before the ceremony can help calm wedding-day jitters and allow you to fully enjoy the moment without hundreds of eyes watching.
  A Private, Emotional Moment Without guests present, you can share raw emotions and even exchange personal vows privately.

• Better Lighting & Flexibility
  If you’re having a late afternoon or winter wedding, a First Look ensures you get natural light for portraits before the sun sets.

Cons of a First Look

• Breaks Tradition
  If you’ve always imagined the classic moment of walking down the aisle and seeing your partner’s reaction, a First Look changes that dynamic.

• Earlier Start Time
  You’ll need to be ready earlier in the day, which means starting hair, makeup, and prep sooner.

• Emotional Peak Happens Before the Ceremony
  Some couples love the idea of building anticipation until the ceremony. If you have a First Look, you might not feel the same level of emotion walking down the aisle.

What Is a Traditional Aisle Reveal?

The Traditional Aisle Reveal is when the couple first sees each other as one partner walks down the aisle. This is the classic, cinematic moment that many couples dream about.

Pros of a Traditional Aisle Reveal

• Preserves the Anticipation & Tradition
  If you’ve always envisioned locking eyes with your partner as you walk down the aisle, this keeps the moment truly special.
  Exciting Moment for Guests
  Your friends and family get to witness the raw emotion of the reveal, making for an unforgettable moment.
  More Time to Get Ready
  Without a First Look, you have a little extra time in the morning to relax and prepare.

Cons of a Traditional Aisle Reveal

• Less Time for Photos
  Formal portraits often have to be squeezed between the ceremony and reception, which can feel rushed and cut into cocktail hour and may loose daylight.
  Increased Nerves Before the Ceremony
  Without a First Look, you won’t see your partner until the ceremony, which can heighten anxiety for some people.
  Shorter Private Couple Time
  Since you won’t have an intimate moment before the ceremony, the first chance to really connect as a married couple may not happen until later in the evening.

Which One Should You Choose?

Ultimately, the choice between a First Look and a Traditional Aisle Reveal depends on your personality, wedding vision, and priorities.

Here are a few things to consider:

• If you want extra time for photos and a relaxed timeline, a First Look is a great choice.
  If you love the tradition and excitement of a grand reveal, a Traditional Aisle Reveal may be the way to go.
  If you’re unsure, consider a First Touch—where you hold hands or exchange letters/vows without seeing each other before the ceremony.

No matter which option you choose, your wedding day will be filled with unforgettable emotions and beautiful moments. As your photographer, I’ll be there to capture them all! Ready to plan your perfect wedding timeline? Let’s chat!